ps terry

Posted by catballou (207.43.76.89) on January 21, 2004 at 19:15:11:

In Reply to: The End is Near... posted by Terry on January 21, 2004 at 09:47:02:

a lot of hospice is free. also she wants her independence and freedom as long as she can. moving with u is like seeing her death already i think. do ur best..and contact her drs and be sure they know they can tell u anything. maybe try to explain to her u would like her close to u so u can be together. assure her u will not mother her nor tell her what to do or not do. what she chooses is her right. be it chemo or be it not-- enjoy what she has. be sure if she changes drs they r willing to simply keep her comfortable if she needs it. have everyone on the same page. i have done home health a lot in my life and learned a lot about it. have good..trusted..licensed care givers. some- believe it or not- will steal everything they can and skip/ make sure any home health is licensed..bonded..and has references. a lot of bad people in that field unfortunately. i so wish u the best and am praying for u both. as i said forget the debt. change her number if she will so they dont bother her. hugsssssss ...to u both.

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