a note on handling ur bisness affairs

Posted by catballou (198.68.208.127) on January 29, 2004 at 15:30:59:

its up to each of us ..to be educated..to find as many views as possible on questions we have..and to sift and sort, to come to our own informed decision on what action we choose to take. it has been noted i give wrong information on here..and its quite possible at times i have. we all have. i am human. it wasnt on purpose tho. none of my posts r meant as anything but..this is how i did it or didnt in my life and this is what i found out happened. online..as in real life..u can get 10 diff views frm 10 diff drs or lawyers or bankers or vets. u can read in 10 books. and then u must make uup ur own mind as to ur course. i suggest everyone learn all they can..search databases..call if u can in ur own town or state..and then decide. i think most here mean well..and simply want to help others. if that means i dont know all the laws but i can help someone frm hurting..then i choose to at least send them reassurances until more than me come along to point out other avenues. sometimes just calming someone down allows them to think better. somethings, believe it or not..i have been thru. home health nursing(yes that is financial too)..BK..home loans..etc. if someone doesnt like my posts i suggest they simply skip mine, should i choose to post again in this hostile atmosphere at this board. its a free board and anyone is willing and welcome to point out anothers mistakes without saying u dumb $%^&**$## how dare u say that. they can simply say i have a diff view or this is what happened to me. well the idea sounds good to me anyways. my best advice to everyone is educate urself..learn all u can..listen to all the diff ideas..and choose what works for u. that is the value here..of many diff people with diff circumstances. a HUGE learning tool if used correctly. we r all in diff states..diff ages..and diff incomes. what works in texas may not in alaska. we have to take responsibility for our own actions untimately. and the consequences. yes i had to embarrass myself yet again. oh well. this is a very stressful time for all of us..or we wouldnt be here. by directing our anger at others..we fail to put it where it goes..at the collectors who abuse us or ourselves for getting in this mess in the first place thru no fault of our own. i apologize for any anger i have directed at anyone here..but not for who i am. credit is a hugely complicated issue. there r no simple short answers for any of this. good luck to u all.

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