Re: Question

Posted by Aimee (68.78.146.37) on June 29, 2004 at 16:28:25:

In Reply to: Question posted by Sky on June 29, 2004 at 14:12:55:

You know Sky, I finally had it too. I was borrowing from Peter to pay Paul and it sucked!!! The best thing we finally did was file BK, we've got a date and hopefully it will all be over soon. I stopped paying, changed my phone number and made it unlisted and just threw the mail away when it came in. I was so sick and tired of attempting to pay the bills and getting so stressed out over it. That's when I sat hubby down and said...this is it. This is what we have as far as debt and he was shocked (so was I). Once you add it all up it's amazing because you then realize you can not pay this off in your lifetime. Keep your chin up and it will get better. I'm learning to live cheap and how to get money orders to pay bills so I don't use my checking account. Totally different world, I can even pay cash for something I want and NOT owe on it the nexth month. Whatever you decide, remember to do it for your family and yourself. There's no point of stressing everyday about money and how to's like I did. In our case, BK was the best answer and I was totally against it at the beginning because of the stigma it gives. Good luck to you!!
Love and Belief,
Aimee

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