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it seems to me,....
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Posted by catb
(4.14.160.132) on August 06, 2004 at 13:55:05:
from reading a lot of posts..that ALL of us simply have trouble understanding and believing deliberate lies. CAs lie..period. why or how? i thought on it, and its how they make their living. they are being rewarded for it. pavlovs dog. the ones of us here cant understand it and we almost refuse to believe it at times. as the poster with the 9 yr old debt posted..we are raised to not lie like this and it almost as if our minds just cant understand it. it flies in all the things we were taught frm childhood. i am the same way. someone lying to my face, knowing its a lie, is something i dont think many of us come across in our daily lives. when it happens, we simply cant imagine it. maybe thats one reason i have so much trouble dealing with CAs, i feel if i only show them the truth, they will somehow see it. i have dealt with abuse issues many years, and let me tell you..this is plain abuse. and a normal person will have huge issues understandin how someone can do it. our minds just reject it. but its a fact..they abuse and they know it. they manipulate to get money. plain and simple, and use the "its your fault" to justify it. classic abuse. perhaps once we learn this, we can deal easier with their tactics. our basic human instinct to trust and care is opposite of this behavior. and that is their first tactic to use against us. just my thoughts to you all. know when we are right and stand firm and do not be blackmailed into their world. do not trust easily. do not fall into the abuse behavior,. most of us will..its a mind game thing.
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